MY DREAM GUY
There aren't a lot of things I look for in choosing a mate but there are a few ones that I really look at. Some of them are physical and some of them are psychological. Like for instance, my dream guy must have brown or blue eyes, especially blue, I love looking into blue eyes. I really like guys with dark hair. I think it's because I like more of the mysterious type, and blonde doesn't show that to me. I really don't care about their physical condition, a.k.a. their chest and butt. haha. I could care less if they're muscular or a bit chubby, not huge. I think though I do draw the line there and I want someone not skinny but not big. Nice soft hands are a plus too, nice soft strong hands. Nice massager hands. Nice lips would be very nice I love kissing! I used to tell myself that I didn't like guys with facial hair. Ha that's funny, I'd rather have a guy with a goatee of some sort anyways :). No bushy beards and no just a mustache thing.
Psychologically I look for emotions in a guy. If the guy is hard and doesn't care, I most am not going to be attracted to him. He must have some type of emotional balance. He must understand why I cry when I cry, maybe not always, but most of the time, and be able to comfort me when I need comfort. Also I would like a guy who isn't trying to be macho and hide his feelings and be able to cry when he feels as he needs to cry.
I also like men who are not into
all the macho fighting. Fighters just turn me off. I like romance too. He must
be some what of a romantic. Whether a full out romantic with all the trimmings
or a guy who tries his hardest to be romantic, that's kinda sexy actually. I am
very independent and haven't had a lot of boyfriends in my life so I pretty much
am use to doing stuff on my own. Like opening doors. I really think it's nice
when a guy does it, but it kinda feels strange because all that time, I've been
opening my own doors. I think that is definitely something I'd have to get use
to.
Extras that I might be looking for. A sweet talker. Someone who knows exactly
what to say and when to say it. Someone who likes to massage feet. I have very
nice feet and it is a big turn on for me for a guy to rub my feet, sometimes
even suck my toes. I also like the type of guy that is playful yet trying to get
me going. A guy who can sit there for awhile without saying anything and just
cuddle. Also I like to run my fingers through a guy's hair, so if they are too
over protective of their hair, it's probably not going to work out.
This is just some of the things I look for in a guy, I'm sure there is more that
I'd like or wouldn't like, but this is what came from the top of my head, the
importat stuff as of now. Not that I'm looking now! hehe, think the
position is filled.
My Dream Guy Summary:
Hair: Dark (brown) (and doesnt' mind fingers running through it)
Eyes: Brown or Blue
Height: 5'5 - 6'2 ( I don't like guys tooo tall.. because I'm only 5'4")
Facial Hair: goatee of some sort
Age: Atleast 4 years older than me. (I like the older guys)
Build: Average
Necessities: gorgeous eyes, soft hands and oh so kissable lips ;)